The worst thing is you know that they're never going to address it or acknowledge they did anything wrong, and if anything their ironypoisoning would just make them double down on another episode if they even ever saw my comment or someone brought it up to them
Something else which I find pretty fascinating that I haven’t really seen anyone bring up yet is the whole “you’re not a sw” part coupled with “have fun being r*ped for money”. From what I can tell, this person is a digital sex worker, specifically audio and pictures. I have done fs sex work before so I brought it up in response. My question is what did she mean by this? That somehow fs sex work isn’t real sex work, or less real than digital sex work? Or digital sex work is somehow less dehumanizing? What does this meaaaaaaaan
I have my thoughts on noncon, sex work and other sexual objectification and how they relate to socialism, misogyny and transenby liberation, but absolutely agreed that the day this site starts that fight it will be scorched earth from front to back. nobody is coming back alive
ty comrade :meow-tankie: it's pretty heartening to get so much love here after the hellscape of :reddit-logo: Idk why I genuinely didn't think the reaction there would be this toxic, especially with how mild my comment actually was
depressing to see Chapo buying into it. kinda suspected they were probably ironypoisoned about enbies for a while but it's sad to finally get it confirmed at a time when trans people are getting targeted more than ever
I think there’s definitely a conversation to be had about the way Ezra cynically uses queer identify to shield themself from criticisms of their behavior that could be described as toxically masculine, as somebody pointed out in the original bwf comment thread. does that convo need to question or deny their identity, of course not
For fun, here was the exchange that got her angry enough to wish sexual assault on me, archived from my email. Very normal responses
What’s crazy to me though is that this shit came from a trans person. Her replies to me in the thread (before she deleted them) were also awful and these dms are borderline psychotic
So many people in there trying to build a dumb “why show them any respect with pronouns if they’re bad people lol” argument immediately freeze up and stop responding when you simply ask “do you purposefully misgender Caitlyn Jenner.” the Chapo enbyphobia is finally bubbling to the surface
This is the same person whose account features r*pe fetishism, by the way
//light sa mention oh my god so incredible twist for people who actually care about stupid /r/bwf drama: someone who got angry and replied to my thread about Ezra miller’s pronouns on the last ep is a nb-phobic trans person accusing me of making trans people look bad… who posted her comment from her r*pe fantasy alt. incredible. beyond parody lmao
yea I totally get it looks sus ik. if you saw the comment thread on the most recent blackwolffeed of a trans person getting dogpiled for suggesting purposefully misgendering someone you don't like is bad, that was me. so I'm here now lol
op of the original comment that sparked controversy here. amazing that nowadays over there even gently suggesting that maybe it's a bad thing to aggressively misgender a nonbinary person you don't like is enough to get you downvoted and spammed to hell. literally just redscare now. w/e introduced me to this place lmao
nah totally valid. I'm a refugee from blackwolffeed now that them and the pod have taken a turn for outward transphobia
baller ty
Also don't wanna spam with a second post but a dedicated /c/lgbt would be nice.
Never seen a discussion among leftists blow up quicker than when a sex worker brings up the abolition of the porn industry lmao