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em_poc • 8 months ago

Help me settle a crazy debate: If a non-black girl is into degradation and likes being gangbanged and beat up by black men, that's obviously racist right?

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Help me settle a crazy debate: If a non-black girl is into degradation and likes being gangbanged and beat up by black men, that's obviously racist right?

GaveUp [she/her]M to

em_poc • 8 months ago

Because the implication here is that she thinks having sex with black men is more degrading/humiliating and getting beat up by them is like, more "savage" or something than other races

My liberal friends all disagree with me and thinks I'm kinkshaming, being racist myself, or invalidating her "preferences" or something (which I think is usually also racist, having racial preferences unless there's some shared culture/experiences)

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CthulhusIntern [he/him]
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8 months ago
Race play is one of the few yums the kink community considers yucking to be OK, at least in my area.

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