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  • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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    2 months ago

    I don't want someone she/her-ing me because I told them to do that, I want them to she/her me because they actually genuinely think that it fits me

    I 100%, totally understand this. I absolutely hate asserting my gender. Idk, some friends of mine think I should but I kind of refuse to. If someone asks me I just say "She/they either or". Idk what else to say but I understand the struggle ❤️

    • Bat [she/her, he/him]
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      2 months ago

      someone referred to me as he the other day then stopped to ask my pronouns afterwards and I wanted to jump out of my skin instead of saying she/her

      • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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        2 months ago

        Yeah for me it depends on the context. Sometimes, to me someone asking at least means that I'm confusing them which I take as a win