One of the most problematic parts of this horrible game is the ability for players to upload their own "skins" – essentially, each player can create a character for themselves in simple photo editing apps such as photoshop. This means that the selection of characters is limited only by the players' imaginations. On the surface, this seems to be a positive of the game, but it turns out that it is not.

This unlimited customization dangerously blurs the boundaries of gender and sex, and, especially considering the predominantly young player base of Minecraft, can be very confusing in terms of gender. One of these confused young people is my son, now 21 years old, who, it turns out, had been using the default "girl" skin of Minecraft, often shown in marketing alongside a more fitting masculine character. While this is not concerning on its own, having done so since the age of 11 will surely have contributed to his gender confusion.

Ever technically minded, my son set up a multiplayer server to play with his boyfriend when they were 14 years old and just started dating. Unfortunately, due to Minecraft's neglectful failure to include any filters or safeguards against dangerous and confusing ideological statements, it served as a funnel for the two of them to encourage each other in their "transitions." Yes, that's right – my son's boyfriend is also gender confused. What's worse is that these two, who are perhaps the worst possible people for each other, are engaged to get married in a "lesbian" wedding later this fall. I, of course, was not invited. Heaven forbid I try to save my son from his horrible confusion.

  • somename [she/her]
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    2 months ago

    I had way too many brain worms set into myself by society, so I actually hard avoided the female player character stereotype, among other things. Didn’t want to be weird, and I definitely didn’t want to show or validate any repressed fears, was VeryNormal in avoiding it.

    • rayne [she/her]
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      2 months ago

      It was a major outlet for me as a teenager. At some point I must have felt teased by it and stopped playing women characters, at least around my friends.

      • bunnygirl [she/her]
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        2 months ago

        vivid flashbacks to the "uhh I just think Jennifer Hale is the better VA" conversations I've had with my friends lol

        (she is tbh)

        • rayne [she/her]
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          2 months ago

          Mine was that I just like to look at her butt.

    • Kiagz [she/her]
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      2 months ago

      Same. I always had to resist the urge to pick the female character, or come up with some elaborate reason for it in case anyone asked