im newsed out y'all, too much is happening I need a boring week. how yall doing? come chat, vent, and joke. em poc only. also ive been seeing an uptick in misogynoir on hexbear. its fine to attack kamala for being a bad person and what not yall but please make sure you are checking yourself for brain worms yall you are not immune to misogynoir. think "if a leftist black women came here and read my comment, would she feel uncomfortable?" "am I keeping this a welcoming space for black women"
so black femcels are women (cis and trans, theres lots of trans women actually), who can't find a happy healthy relationship. The types of femcels are varied and different online spaces have wildly different vibes. black and poc femcels usually make their own space because white femcels are racist. black femcels tend to blame all their problems on black men, claiming all black men cheat and lie, some of them say "actully elite black billionaires have black wives, so its only "low-value" black men who are trash. some black femcels are anti black lives matter because why should black women support a cause to stop mostly black men from being murdered, when "they would never do the same for us". femcels hate men but desperately want relationships with them. some of them go the doomer route swearing off all men some do the lookmaxing vindicta route where they sometimes pay women to teach them to become "high value women" and spend thousands on glow ups at the medispa and make "am I ugly post, what should I improve" for other femcels to rank. and they advise eachother to be mean to men to make them like you and to never date a man who makes less then 100k or hes not high value. there are also divesters who insist that "divesting" from black men is the key to happiness and if they can only find a nonblack (ideally white) they would treat them well, and pay for all their stuff and, "allow them to step into their feminine energy", ideally make them a housewife, be hyper masculine but without the misogyny, ect. this kinda gets into @GaveUp@hexbear.net question,
lots of black femcels have convinced themselves that every average-looking white girl that isnt "in her masculine energy" is living a dream life, with a man who is a perfect masculine gentlemen who pays for everything and ask for nothing and never cheats or lies and will solve all their problems. Basically they want to be their fantasy idea of how good white women have it. ive met quite a few divesters IRL because my partner is cuban (his dads black but you couldn't tell looking at him) and they always ask how "how much better it is" but yeah theres a lot of them, you just never hear about them because they aren't out here doing mass shootings like men are. and they get banned a lot.
I swear every community has some equivalent of divestors. At the end of the day, they all spew a bunch of bullshit just to say they only want to date white dudes. I suppose it works out because the POC men are better off without them. Feel sorry for their kids though because you know their kids are going to be fucked up.