there are also divesters who insist that "divesting" from black men is the key to happiness and if they can only find a nonblack (ideally white) they would treat them well,

I swear every community has some equivalent of divestors. At the end of the day, they all spew a bunch of bullshit just to say they only want to date white dudes. I suppose it works out because the POC men are better off without them. Feel sorry for their kids though because you know their kids are going to be fucked up.