Because well, I am Asexual, and well.... it is incredibly rare to find another Asexual person anywhere. Not to shame people for their interests, but I am not comfortable with a lot of posts, even if they are meant to be for a joke, implying that everyone gets horny, and/or that apparent "Peak Hedonism" or whatever it's called, is about having lots of sex. Again, something I am not interested in.

I have seen no signs of any Asexual friendly spaces on this site, not even in the LGBTQIA+ Subcommunity for this site. Although I have been socially isolated by otherwise queer friendly spaces before, for "only" being Asexual.

  • UmbraVivi [he/him, she/her]
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    2 months ago

    idk if there's a term for this, but I assume OP feels alienated by the assumption that experiencing sexual attraction is the norm. Like heteronormativity but for sexuality in general, I suppose.

    • simpletailor [he/him]
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      2 months ago

      Allonormativity is what you're talking about. Amatonormativity is the assumptions related to romantic attraction/relationships.

      See Chen's book Ace for a primer on asexuality https://www.angelachen.org/ace