Yeah I know dating apps bad etc

I paid 17 dollars for the week pass allowing me unlimited likes 💀 of course because I’m desperate and they force you into that choice because using it for free you only get 5 free likes a day lmao. The problem is NOBODY fucking responds back to my messages, I’ve had 2 conversations out of 20 matches, one of the convos died after I asked them out, the other convo just ended abruptly for no apparent reason. It’s really demoralizing to say the least but I just don’t understand, if they don’t like me and accidentally sent a like they should just unmatch right away but they don’t.

The future is grim. How does anyone meet anyone anymore?

  • GaveUp [she/her]
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    10 hours ago

    It's now more difficult with cis women though, something I've noticed

    Same, though I'd imagine a lot of that is just there is way more cishet women than sapphic women. I've had way more interest with bi/lesbian enbies though, I feel like they typically only date other queer people

    • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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      10 hours ago

      Oh yes part of it is that there are less lesbians however, I have over the past 8 months essentially had 0 interest from lesbians or even bi cis women. A little surprising tbh to me at least, I thought I would be an ideal for bi women

      • GaveUp [she/her]
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        10 hours ago

        Come to the bay area girlie, your scene is weird

              • GaveUp [she/her]
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                9 hours ago

                real, though the cis lesbians in SF are wonderful tbh, the cis bi ones are all the chasers and queerphobic

                • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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                  9 hours ago

                  Veeeerrry interesting. Yeah I hear a similar thing from other places from my friends. I mean, cis lesbians here are cool too it's just I don't think I'm very seen as a woman so there's just no interest. I need to do voice training lol I'm pretty sure that's seriously hindering me at this point

                  • GaveUp [she/her]
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                    8 hours ago

                    oh yea, voice training is super important. I've jokingly asked a few lesbians if they wanted to hear my deep voice and they were just like please no I don't want to hear that