Yeah I know dating apps bad etc

I paid 17 dollars for the week pass allowing me unlimited likes 💀 of course because I’m desperate and they force you into that choice because using it for free you only get 5 free likes a day lmao. The problem is NOBODY fucking responds back to my messages, I’ve had 2 conversations out of 20 matches, one of the convos died after I asked them out, the other convo just ended abruptly for no apparent reason. It’s really demoralizing to say the least but I just don’t understand, if they don’t like me and accidentally sent a like they should just unmatch right away but they don’t.

The future is grim. How does anyone meet anyone anymore?

  • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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    vor 12 Stunden

    Oh yes part of it is that there are less lesbians however, I have over the past 8 months essentially had 0 interest from lesbians or even bi cis women. A little surprising tbh to me at least, I thought I would be an ideal for bi women

    • GaveUp [she/her]
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      vor 11 Stunden

      Come to the bay area girlie, your scene is weird

            • GaveUp [she/her]
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              vor 11 Stunden

              real, though the cis lesbians in SF are wonderful tbh, the cis bi ones are all the chasers and queerphobic

              • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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                vor 11 Stunden

                Veeeerrry interesting. Yeah I hear a similar thing from other places from my friends. I mean, cis lesbians here are cool too it's just I don't think I'm very seen as a woman so there's just no interest. I need to do voice training lol I'm pretty sure that's seriously hindering me at this point

                • GaveUp [she/her]
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                  vor 10 Stunden

                  oh yea, voice training is super important. I've jokingly asked a few lesbians if they wanted to hear my deep voice and they were just like please no I don't want to hear that