• Acute_Engles [he/him, any]
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    19 hours ago

    Is it common to open with dick pic and then "hey" because that build order doesn't work on the hetero apps

    • RiotDoll [she/her, she/her]
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      18 hours ago

      on grindr it's basically a handshake and the further into transition i got the more i hated the entire app and male hookup culture generally

        • RiotDoll [she/her, she/her]
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          11 hours ago

          i respect it. the more i felt outside the clubhouse, the more i disassociated genitals from gender, the less i wanted to do with the masculine.

          which is something i've never really unpacked, but it makes a pansexual me functionally lesbian

      • NPa [he/him]
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        15 hours ago

        Dickpic opener is an old meta, it got solved when people figured out the "screenshot-and-send-to-their-wife" tech. It might work against an inexperienced dater, but at that point you're not even gaining Elo.

    • Parzivus [any]
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      17 hours ago

      There's a reason that Grindr predates Tinder, that's all I'm saying