This lady is rich, and I wonder if there is a certain level of wealth required to put ones mind into the right mental state to come up with such a take. Like paying $50,000 to go to that Guatemala cult and do a huyauasca trip and come up with this take.
Being the kind of friend who can recognize when they've said or done something gauche, apologize, and reconcile with a person they enjoy being around.
Just hanging out with someone who is constantly haranguing you over shit, to no discernable benefit.
Imagine thinking there is literally no difference between these two things.
I honestly have to wonder whether these people even have friends at all.