A friend of mine (or so I thought a friend) was definitely one. The dude wreaked havoc in my life and is in prison currently I believe. Any time I got involved with him my life ended up smoldering.
How about you guys? I feel like people here are more real and honest than on Reddit, I appreciate you all and much love.
briefly, and what i learned on how to treat them was in a transactional "help me and you will benefit too" or realpolitik kind of "dont do this or it would hurt/hassle you".
Very quid pro quo if you want to avoid antagonizing the type of people with aspd who lack empathy vs just maladjusted people.