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  • Koa_lala [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    But I can't even manage to introduce myself without fucking up and stumbling over my words. :side-eye-1:

    EDIT: Idk, seems like an okay video for when you're not neurodiverse or not disabled. Otherwise, it kind of erases those struggles tbh. "your profile just sucks" is a slap in the face. Especially when you have put a lot of care in your profile because you know you're disadvantaged on dating apps. Not to mention that those apps literally work on incel logic, giving people scores and ranking them to "looksmatch" and try to extract as much money from you as they can while attractive people used as good marketing and make you keep swiping.

    • Dirtbag [they/them]M
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      4 years ago

      stupid take that works for me: dating is like shitposting. don't think about it and have fun. you are not you, you're an account on an app talking to other accounts on an app. if something doesnt work whatever, move onto the next shitpost / match.

    • quarantine_man [none/use name]
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      4 years ago

      I hate making a profile. It's a waste of time unless you're a normie who doesn't need this shit anyway.

    • NaturalsNotInIt [any]
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      4 years ago

      Your profile barely matters on dating apps fwiw. Most people struggle because they treat it like Serious Business instead of yet another game on your phone to idly pass time.

      • MarxNAngels [none/use name]
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        4 years ago

        Your profile barely matters on dating apps fwiw.

        I don't think that's really true at all tbh.

        • Dirtbag [they/them]M
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          4 years ago

          Pics of you smiling / doing cool stuff. Not overthinking the profile writing matters too I guess.

          my opinion, but whatevs.

          • MarxNAngels [none/use name]
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            4 years ago

            ah, i was reading "profile" to mean the whole package -- pics & bio. i certainly agree that high quality pictures, depicting cool stuff, are the most important thing.

            (i'd also agree that not having an overthought/overwrought bio is important, but my sense is that guys who are within normal distribution ranges of conventional attractiveness and who don't really put any quality thought into their bios at all (or at least fail to comport to the general genre conventions of bio writing) end up suffering for it.)

        • NaturalsNotInIt [any]
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          4 years ago

          Pictures matter more than anything you write, and even then it's arbitrary. I know that I've swiped left on hot, cool people by accident or just let conservations die because I forgot about them. It's not as serious as people try to make it out, and the amount of "gaming" the system is pretty limited.

  • DivineChaos100 [none/use name]
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    4 years ago

    I want to watch the video because i love TS but i'm afraid it's another "well if you can't get laid just put effort into making yourself attractive" bs.

    • carbohydra [des/pair]
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      4 years ago

      I paraphrase him: "there are people way uglier than you who are slaying all day every day" so don't worry

  • quarantine_man [none/use name]
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    4 years ago

    Just "get over yourself" and use these shitty apps where you have to market yourself like you're competing with 10,000 other people for 1 job

    yeah, fuck off

    Not a bad video, though.

  • MarxNAngels [none/use name]
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    4 years ago

    always wild where a video providing a gentle reminder to be open and humble and have a good attitude is rejected with hostility by people determined to have a bad attitude.

  • Dirtbag [they/them]M
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    4 years ago

    the profile isn't a big deal imo. just throw in some stuff you're into, don't talk shit about yourself, and keep it short. pictures matter tho, gotta have pics of you doing some cool shit.