Spent a morning out on the town on my day off, and everyone is just fucking buried in their phones 24/7. This realization was so absurd to me

Of course I’m not exempt from this shit, but no wonder people are having so much trouble making friends and creating meaningful relationships in this day and age. So fucking bleak

    • JoeByeThen [he/him, they/them]
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      1 year ago

      Newspapers and what became before them weren't addictive, dynamic skinner boxes with millions of dollars in machine learning behind them trying to map out and manipulate every aspect of your behavior. It was just good old fashioned one way propaganda.

      • Dolores [love/loves]
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        1 year ago

        that's the individual analysis, i'd argue newpapers could occupy a similar function in public spaces of a tentative 'do not disturb' sign that phones do. the OP is talking about people in public and it's a pretty valid observation that people used to have ways to avoid talking to others and making relationships too.

        • MattsAlt [comrade/them]
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          1 year ago

          Eh at least it wasn't so easy. The generation of "meet people or practice socializing in lines" is gone due to phones imo, bit harder to do that with a newspaper at every 'empty' moment

          • Dolores [love/loves]
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            1 year ago

            yeah paper's a bit less conveinient and vulnerable to people seeing what you're reading & inquiring about it. phones have definitely improved upon the "don't talk to me" meta, especially with headphones

            • OgdenTO [he/him]
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              1 year ago

              Fuckin headphones. Everyone has them on. How do people feel safe biking in the city with headphones on?!

              • Nakoichi [they/them]
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                1 year ago

                Also with a newspaper, you didn't have a real time comment section and if you are all sitting around reading a paper you're probably all reading the same few papers and it could even foster in person social interaction and discussion. I remember a time where I would come to work and eat lunch in the break room while reading the paper and talking about whatever was in the news that day with my coworkers for example.

      • HexbearGPT [comrade/them]
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        1 year ago

        If this is what it sounds like, why isn’t my phone more entertaining? Do a better job, manipulators!

        • JoeByeThen [he/him, they/them]
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          1 year ago

          Something being addictive doesn't necessarily mean it feels good; often it's just the cessation of the withdrawal symptoms.

          • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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            1 year ago

            This is part of why it's called "doomscrolling", because it doesn't feel good but you feel compelled to do it (implicitly because not doing it agitates you or something)

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            • Commiejones [comrade/them, he/him]
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              1 year ago

              I remember having like 30 phone numbers in my head. What a fucking waste of space. Some of them are still in there even though I haven't used them in decades.

              • Nakoichi [they/them]
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                1 year ago

                lol still remember the landline number from my childhood home.

                Actually I still probably remember about 30 numbers now that I think of it.

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      I think the non-thought-terminating way to interpret these datapoints is that the modern version is an amplification of whatever you want to call this, just like the 24-hour news cycles have been compounded by minute-by-minute updates from news delivered by social media pages and now Telegram groups and such. It's not the same because there are (real and substantive) parallels with what came before, that's a crass simplification.

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      • MF_COOM [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        Jesus Christ I genuinely don't know what your problem is. I try to never respond to you because your posting energy really rubs me the wrong way and your 100% commitment to get the last word in no matter what is exhausting, but..

        Is this really how you had to respond? You had so many choices. Did you have to assume so many negative things about what I think despite not having any evidence I think those things? Do you really need to choose such a combative tone with a comrade? Did you need to even respond at all?

        W/e I'm going back to work fuck this

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          Agreed. One of my least favorite aspects of this site being so small is the amount of power posters and the debate energy they have.

          I also find it ironic that so many users here are going off on smartphones because algorithms and skinner boxes or whatever while having ridiculously active post histories on this platform, which has no profit motive, skinner box behavior, etc, presumably also from a smartphone or some other device.

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          • Dolores [love/loves]
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            they didn't say it was good or bad, they didn't imply nothing has ever changed or can ever change?

            "people are buried in phones" was met by "people used to be buried in newspapers" then you just assumed the only way to arrive at that observation is through all those ideological offenses, which is a pretty silly assumption to make on a leftist forum. people here criticize more traditional media all the time.

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              • Dolores [love/loves]
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                what was the intention of the picture

                i'm simply reticent to make a sweeping generalizations about someone's whole ideological outlook from a single datapoint. its justified to call into question the comparison being made, but the distance from there to a fundamental disbelief in societal change is wholly unsupported, which is why you have to bring in all this vaguely related stuff that's superficially similar. but assyrian old men yelling at the sky don't have anything to say about newspapers vs. phones in capitalist socialization

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              • Wertheimer [any]
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                That quotation from "Socrates" is made-up by some 19th or 20th-century moralist.

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                  • Wertheimer [any]
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                    I know you don't - the people posting that quote are lying to make a bad argument even worse.

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              • DayOfDoom [any, any]
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                Absolutely everything is literally irony with no contextual or humorous differences. The most good-faith position is to say this a lot with the implication that posts can or will ever not be ironic. smuglord