She talked to me and was interested in my pet pictures and stuff. I didn't leave my name or contact details, but she did write down the book I was reading, which was Graebers debt book. What now?
EDIT: I didn't actually want advice, I'm just not sure where to put mildly amusing anecdotes, so I put it here framed as a question. I'm not going to stalk at the bar
without contact info, you have no options other than to frequent the bar and hope she revisits
It usually feels awkward, but if you want to see someone again, you have to ask for some contact information.
Can even play it chill and ask for an IG or snap chat, depending on your age this is pretty damn normal and not weird in most situations. But getting the actual number is preferable
Hard to know what to suggest next without knowing what you've already read, but a good followup to Debt might be some Max Weber, just to compare it with a historical take on similar questions
I didn’t leave my name or contact details
Your only recourse is to become a nightly regular at that bar, stalking the place where you met until she shows up again.
Speaking of, anyone ever meet platonic friends at bars? Moved to a new city and looking to meet people.
Tell me more. You just chatted someone up about sports or politics or whatever and were like hey bro you want to hang again later?
Sit down at a bar/table with other people because the place is full, pull out a card game, ask who wants to play
I didn’t leave my name or contact details
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You idiot. You've goofed it really. You could sit around in that same bar n hope she walks through some time, but I'd take it as a learning experience. Next time make a move. Get a number or an Instagram.
Ouch. OP could also ask the bartender if that person comes by often.
I'm hypersensitive about things being creepy but I find that slightly odd.
