• AlephNull [she/her]
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    3 years ago

    Social context and personal intimacy? If it's inappropriate for the environment or we just plain dont know each other?

    • Nakoichi [they/them]
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      3 years ago

      I'm assuming the latter, in which case I typically (in general not specifically flirting) try to complement people on aesthetic choices, e.g. how they do their nails, their jewelry, complement their choice of hair color or the way it's cut/styled.

      • BeamBrain [he/him]
        hexagon
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        3 years ago

        I believe Aleph was phrasing her answer as a question, with the first part being how she judges and the second part being examples of creepy behavior.

        • AlephNull [she/her]
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          3 years ago

          Yeah sorry for the ambiguity, "the line" would be the social context and personal intimacy I guess.

          • Nakoichi [they/them]
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            3 years ago

            Yeah I was responding just to the "we don't know each other" part.

      • MaoTheLawn [any, any]
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        3 years ago

        Depends on environment. If someone's playing eyeball tennis with you in a bar then you're fairly clear to go over and introduce yourself. Just don't be overbearing and don't hang around for long.