• AlephNull [she/her]
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    hace 4 años

    Social context and personal intimacy? If it's inappropriate for the environment or we just plain dont know each other?

    • Nakoichi [they/them]
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      hace 4 años

      I'm assuming the latter, in which case I typically (in general not specifically flirting) try to complement people on aesthetic choices, e.g. how they do their nails, their jewelry, complement their choice of hair color or the way it's cut/styled.

      • BeamBrain [he/him]
        hexagon
        ·
        hace 4 años

        I believe Aleph was phrasing her answer as a question, with the first part being how she judges and the second part being examples of creepy behavior.

        • AlephNull [she/her]
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          hace 4 años

          Yeah sorry for the ambiguity, "the line" would be the social context and personal intimacy I guess.

          • Nakoichi [they/them]
            ·
            hace 4 años

            Yeah I was responding just to the "we don't know each other" part.

      • MaoTheLawn [any, any]
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        hace 4 años

        Depends on environment. If someone's playing eyeball tennis with you in a bar then you're fairly clear to go over and introduce yourself. Just don't be overbearing and don't hang around for long.