• gleemer_ [none/use name]
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      3 years ago

      i actually have a theory about this. like recently i see these prompts on twitter about approaching a girl at the grocery store, and all of the well meaning simp types say thats creepy id never do that, but in real life shit like that doesnt matter at all. and when guys ask for advice women will tell them to never approach a woman in public, because they assume they're creeps. so they go on being shy and resentful

      sorry if this was out of nowhere/insane id like to hear your thoughs

      • coatimundi [none/use name]
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        3 years ago

        If this was someone like me or people I know, I would say I think this strategy is unlikely to work and it would be better if they went somewhere else to do this, preferably either with people they have some social connection to or in an environment where people go to have fun.