Idk if I fully agree with you furry theory but even for things that seem beyond wild to me I ask myself "does this activity of theirs negatively affect others in a meaningful way" and the answer unless it's like fascists or something is pretty much always no and so even though I'm not a fan of the fandom it pisses me off when people are dicks to furries just because they're social norms are different than another's. Same goes for anyone or anything. Even as a little kid when people would make fun of those hyper tattooed people with split tongue or reptilian like alterations I always thought "who gives a shit, as long as they like it why does anyone care so much"