• YearOfTheCommieDesktop [they/them]
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    11 months ago

    realizing that is shocking.

    it is, isn't it? I had a really rough couple days recently and had a similar realization. I was able to say I love you to my friend who talked me through it all, and have it not be weird but even then I held onto a lot of tension about whether it would come off the wrong way or whatever, when there was really no chance of that, from both context and from our personal history.