Like every time someone posts a study about how it's bad, you get a huge flood of people saying stuff like "I was spanked as a kid, yet I'm fine".
Like every time someone posts a study about how it's bad, you get a huge flood of people saying stuff like "I was spanked as a kid, yet I'm fine".
Idk how the fuck schools were allowed to straight up beat little kids with massive wooden paddles with goddamn air holes so they could slap it harder. Shit is wild. My dad also told me stories of the nuns in his catholic middle school beating peoles knuckles with rulers till they bled. Fucking insanity
I went to school in India as a child. Teachers would punish you in the most fucked up ways. You’d hold out your hands and they’d just thwack it with a ruler, sometimes they’d get other kids in the class to slap you. If they felt cheeky they’d make you squat in front of the class for the entire period until your knees gave up.
And then I’d get beat by my mom when I’d come home for school, for getting beat by the teacher. I think in many parts of Asia(including in China) they still use corporal punishment. It explains why so many are such reactionary shitheads.
Dang, that's super rough stuff. Ugh it makes me sad that this stuff is still somehow okay in the the year of our lord (2021). Thanks for sharing your story though o7
Any idea how much of that is a relic of colonialism vs. pre-dating br*tish rule?
No idea, would be really interesting to look at!
Making the kid go outside to pick the switch they're struck with was popular too.
see also 'rule of thumb'
Oh shit yeah! I remember when my grandpa jokingly told me to cut him a switch and I was like, "you want me to be electrocuted??" Then he explained it all and how his dad made him do that and he always resented it. Also belts! They'd take off their belts and whip kids. So much fucked up stuff
Belts, kettle cables, wooden spoons, open palm, closed fist, I learned to wear multiple layers early on lmao. Some people seem to see kids as property rather than individual people, its fucking weird
:( sorry to hear that
Sorry for tmi! I've tried to understand the hows and whys for a long while because of it
No don't be sorry, it's quite alright to share those things. It helps people a lot usually, plus others here might be able to relate. It's just a sad reality that still exists in some homes.
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Sad low energy wrecker. Do better next time.Sad
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Got friends?
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Do you need some?
I went to grade school in the 90s and kids got spanked with paddles by the principals there (though this was a religious school not a public one).
I went over to a friend's house who had a very old mom (for our age) and she was a retired teacher. Well, I'll never forget seeing her wall in her damn living room had maybe 7 or so different types of paddles hanging up on her wall. One of them was even Christmas themed. Just so weird
This is one of the most cursed things I've ever heard of
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