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    • BigAssBlueBug [they/them]
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      3 years ago

      Why not just be genuine though

      What's the point in getting people to like you if they only like a persona,

      • Dinkdink [none/use name]
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        3 years ago

        I've always hated that advice: "just be yourself." What if being yourself is what people don't like? Then being yourself is the worst advice ever.

        Maybe people don't like you because you need to change.

          • Dinkdink [none/use name]
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            3 years ago

            Who said I was talking to people with clinical depression? To the rest of the world that's good advice. It worked for me. It turned out that being myself was the entire problem. I made changes, painful though they were, and life got better. Not a little bit better, a LOT better. Like night and day difference.

            If you are clinically depressed you may ignore my advice.

            • ventthrowaway [none/use name]
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              3 years ago

              the content of the meme was about suicidal jokes. depression is at least tangentially related if not the central topic of the meme you are posting indirectly in response to.