in a way that is super uncomfy I think that for some ranges of men they do have a fundamental level of intamacy that they need to function appropriately. So we get this negative feedback cycle where some guys get touch starved then act out, and that pushes people away and only makes their problems worse. Historically I think the absolute floor to this kind of thing was well managed legal sex work. There is probably a high minded solution we could implement after the revolution but there is no way we could manage it as a society now. Since as you pointed out, the maintence of empire works better with young bitter angry men around to help keep pressure on the rest of society.