I have to be honest I am pretty clueless about gender. Like I see gender function as social roles on a daily basis, but no framework to analyze it on a more meaningful level than picking up on some common behaviors and stereotypes.
I have to be honest I am pretty clueless about gender. Like I see gender function as social roles on a daily basis, but no framework to analyze it on a more meaningful level than picking up on some common behaviors and stereotypes.
How was the question loaded or othering? How were they not treating you like a person when asking a very general, introductory question about, as you put it "an entire field of study"?
You are absolutely right that it is my job to educate myself but I have to get that information somewhere. Asking a forum of people who I know to have "good opinions" about many other things sounds like a good place to start right? Especially relating to something that is such a minefield as gender is.
You don't have to explain every detail of how you personally relate to gender, just throw out a book rec or two and have done with it, or just don't engage at all maybe?
You started out pretty hostile and certainly did not "gently point out problematic behavior"
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What is the veiled insult that answers this?
You were from the start and have continued to be the hostile party.