Stuff like "stupid, idiot, moron, dumb," you know the ones. If you’re insulting someone for their shitty garbage beliefs and all you can manage to come up with is ways to insult their intelligence, appearance, or other aspect about them that has nothing to do with their cruelty and shittyness, you should maybe reevaluate.

Just saw a thread on here where a user was stubbornly refusing to adjust their language when another user politely pointed out that it was harmful to our comrades as well, and the person refusing was massively upvoted and the comrade trying to explain why it was harmful was downvoted. Thought we were better than that

I'm not calling anyone out, just wanted to make a post explaining my feelings on it and that when stuff like that happens (not the intelligence based insults, I know its hard to switch, but getting insulted for asking people to avoid them) it hurts and makes me feel less welcome here </3

Using words like “You’re being ignorant” or “That’s a cruel belief” is actually more effective than just going “lmao idiot”.

If those are the words you actually mean to convey I'd say use them instead :)

Edit: if the reception this post got isn't a good proof that this is something this community needs to grapple with, I don't know what is.

  • qublic69 [none/use name]
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    It would be rhetorically a "terrible argument because people said the same thing about Jim Crow laws"...
    I certainly would not even try defending laws against murder in terms of public order, there are plenty of other much better reasons.
    (but that is entirely besides the point)

    It’s not logically sound to say that because an argument would be wrong about some completely other thing, that it’s also wrong about this.

    Perfectly logical when directed at the form of the argument, but that's... ugh this is getting too abstract and pedantic.

    Which just proves my point, you're getting nowhere with this, neither of us have even slightly shifted our position.
    These kinds of semantic arguments almost never work in practice.
    You have to start from definitions that everyone can agree upon if you want to get anywhere.

    Obviously the f-word is bad because it harms LGBT people, no sensible person could dispute that.
    That is sufficient. There is no need for a further arguments about whether or not it is technically slur.
    It would be wrong to use even if the word 'slur' had not been invented yet.
    We can certainly agree that it is a slur. But it not a bad word to use only because it is a slur.

    I don't know or care if 'stupid' is a slur, it doesn't matter. Even if 'moron' probably is a slur, I'm far too happy using that word, and I just have not seen sufficient evidence that it really hurts bystanders.
    Focusing your argument on what defines a slur, that is what I was opposed to, because it goes nowhere.

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      The argument, which I only had to clarify because somebody was misrepresenting what another user was arguing, was originally made in response to somebody claiming that these words are in fact slurs, which is when you then jumped in with your logically fallacious “that argument is bad because other people say it about things that are slurs!”

      Slurs are bad because the reproduce systems of oppression against marginalized groups of people, it’s a useful distinction and I don’t agree with you that it’s unimportant whether a word is a slur or not.

      • qublic69 [none/use name]
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        Slurs are bad because the reproduce systems of oppression against marginalized groups of people,

        That's a much better definition, and a distinction worth making; although different from what you had mentioned previously.
        And it just doesn't exclude words like 'moron', it just doesn't. It was specifically used in relation to eugenics; how could it get more "reproducing systems of oppression" than that?

        which is when you then jumped in with your logically fallacious “that argument is bad because other people say it about things that are slurs!”

        That wasn't me (edit: or maybe it was, is ambiguous which comment you refer to); and I don't entirely agree about that, but ugh... I'm tired of this whole thread so...
        You two play nice or something, cause I'm out.