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  • Lemmygradwontallowme [he/him, comrade/them]
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    1 year ago

    Well, because I don't feel much attachment to my nation of origin, the Philippines, with its culture, and language,

    I guess that's in part due to the fact I was raised as a child of some skilled expats who worked in Dubai, in a more or less globalized environment...

    • Amerikan Pharaoh@lemmygrad.ml
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      1 year ago

      I used to, when I was a lot younger. It took a close homie of mine chipping away at the neurotic almost-phobia that my mother gave me of my own culture, and then a run-in with the cops a few years after the homie that absolutely informed me as to what I am when the pig's radioing home, for me to really start busting those walls down and feeling out who I am and what my place is.

        • Amerikan Pharaoh@lemmygrad.ml
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          1 year ago

          Wish I knew. The trail for my genealogy disappears after like 1890, but I was given to understand that my family escaped slavery before the Proclamation was written. I can only really call myself Black, rather than have a direct nation to trace back to. (Cause motherfuck me if you thought I was gonna claim Amerika!)

    • GreenWater [she/her]
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      1 year ago

      I have never heard of an apple before. Is this an American nickname? I do sometimes feel myself growing distant from Taiwan as I continue to live in Latin America and integrate more to the culture. There are times when I find myself thinking in Spanish before Chinese and it is a little concerning sometimes.

      Are you American? Or do you still live in Dubai? I have heard America can be hard for people from other cultures because you are forced to assimilate.

      • Lemmygradwontallowme [he/him, comrade/them]
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        1 year ago

        First of all, I'm not American... second, I don't live in Dubai anymore (I stayed there until I was 14 years old) , just around North America....

        Third, I've been mostly living in an international setting, so I don't live near, or interact much with white people, let alone Gulf Arabs in UAE...

        Fourth, what is an Apple?...

        I use the term banana and coconut, to refer to East-Asians (Eg. Chinese) and South-Asians (Eg. Indians), whose main commonality is that they've internalized heavily a bit of western-thinking, if not culture...

        • GreenWater [she/her]
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          1 year ago

          My mistake. I assumed you were American because I have heard similar things from Asians who immigrated there.

          I misread and thought you said apple. Maybe I am more tired than I think. These names are unfamiliar to me but I guess I feel like a banana sometimes. I am fortunate that there is a Chinese population everywhere but it is not quite the same with most I meet coming from Hong Kong or Shanghai.