There's a lot of things in the world to ponder and it's natural to ponder on things more relevant to yourself. There's also a definite difference between mulling it over a couple times when bored and regularly coming back to the thought.
As always, you're the only one who can process through what those feelings means for you. I just want to encourage people that they're valid and not weird. :)
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There's a lot of things in the world to ponder and it's natural to ponder on things more relevant to yourself. There's also a definite difference between mulling it over a couple times when bored and regularly coming back to the thought.
I feel guilty for only ever considering it when the volcel police need to be called.
No need to feel guilty for that at all! That is a very normal experience for many people. The idea that it's bad or invalid to get turned on thinking of yourself as the other gender originally comes from a transphobe who faked their research results.
As always, you're the only one who can process through what those feelings means for you. I just want to encourage people that they're valid and not weird. :)
This is actually incredibly helpful. Thank you!
I'm so glad to hear that! 🥰