This is a real question I really like the fantasy setting even the world building but for love of all that is holy why I can I not find anything that isn't horny and gross, I just have fond memory of playing online fantasy games with friends, I feel like i'm losing my mind Is it so much to ask for a good story maybe even romance and but with no silly male power fantasy/ fanservice? :inshallah: I will take any suggestions that meet the non horny/ no useless female characters/ shitty male characters I feel like I'm asking for too much.
Can it be manga? If so then: So I'm a Spider, So What?
It does have an anime btw, but I honestly preferred the manga. The anime just didn't have the same charm the manga had imo
Unless the manga has a completely different character design for Ariel I'm going to say this doesn't qualify.
I'd recommend the novel over the manga, from my understanding it cuts out giant chunks of world building and most of the human side of things which gradually gets more important.