I feel like it's most noticeable to trans women too because quite frankly a lot of the trans women I know overcompensate into the hyper-feminine pinky pink and frills realm "dress go spinny" because they've had that withheld from them in all walks of life. So when they can't be remotely feminine in a game it's very obvious and upsetting.

Ironically the group of people that probably gets blamed for this kind of thing by the chuds are the group that wants extremely feminine content. Generally speaking.