Hmmm, idk. As someone who grew up as a “girl,” my appearance was (and still is sometimes!) policed way more by the women in my life than it was by the men (the men also did some policing, just not as much).
i see what you mean, i guess i mostly meant when looking for a relationship women are more accepting of "flaws" and men tend to be more shallow. i understand what you mean about "girls" being mean to each other, i mostly saw that secondhand via my sister and her friends. they did seem to have fights that would rotate through the group.
Hmmm, idk. As someone who grew up as a “girl,” my appearance was (and still is sometimes!) policed way more by the women in my life than it was by the men (the men also did some policing, just not as much).
i see what you mean, i guess i mostly meant when looking for a relationship women are more accepting of "flaws" and men tend to be more shallow. i understand what you mean about "girls" being mean to each other, i mostly saw that secondhand via my sister and her friends. they did seem to have fights that would rotate through the group.