Did you know that abusers engage in love bombing? Love bombing is when you meet someone on Tinder but then they don't like you, so they go date someone else.

Contrary to popular belief it's not abuse when someone confides in you that their privacy has been violated, so you screenshot that exact message and post it to your large TikTok audience, triggering a worldwide harassment and doxxing campaign over someones lack of sexual morality, and worst of all, not continuing to date YOU

Really cool to get Quaker Oats or something to call your date a fucking slut

https://mobile.twitter.com/ohheyjenna/status/1483887997430992896

  • Barabas [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    Finally learned what this is about and now I'm even more confused.

    I thought it was something like the Japanese guy who had many girlfriends and told them all different birthdays so he'd get gifts and treated to food across the year. But this is just a guy casually dating several people, how did this blow up?

    • mr_world [they/them]
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      3 years ago

      It sounds like he was dating multiple people simultaneously while telling them all he wasn't. She says he was dating her and the other person several times while telling them both he wasn't on hinge anymore and he wasn't seeing anyone. It's not that he went on a date and never saw either of them again.