I don't know your situation, but I will say that having these conversations over text is just generally an L. I know someone who is Q adjacent now (despite him having received racist comments and threats from other Q addled individuals), and whenever we speak over text, everything is wooden and the convo has zero structure. You also just get lost in the weeds because people just start throwing shit at you, and you find yourself Googling every few seconds to fact check. Over the phone, or better yet in person, it's much easier to conversate and get to the root issues of why this person is feeling this way. I have had some breakthroughs doing it this way, but the biggest issue is not being able to speak to this person consistently, which just resets some arguments down the line.