CW: breaking of volcel pledge, also cringe topic, but if you need a break from war stuff, here you go
Edit: I realize now that the boyfriends think it is bjs are demeaning. I originally thought that she was saying the boyfriends thought it was demeaning not to get bjs. Lmao. That makes this even more intriguing
It's more like cunnilingus is a default amenity and any guys who don't have that feature just get immediately returned to the factory as defective.