CW: breaking of volcel pledge, also cringe topic, but if you need a break from war stuff, here you go
Edit: I realize now that the boyfriends think it is bjs are demeaning. I originally thought that she was saying the boyfriends thought it was demeaning not to get bjs. Lmao. That makes this even more intriguing
I have spent the last two months working on my core flexibility every single day only to just now see this post, and realize that if I ever achieved my main 2022 goal, it would be incredibly demeaning to myself.
I give up. Fuck this year.
Ngl those sound like some sad marriages. Barely even having sex with your spouse? Maybe I'm just overly horny but that seems incredibly sad.
:sadness: sometimes you just stay together because your personalities have become compatible and you are both too poor and mutually financially interdependent
Oh no, I get that. But these relationships are being framed as the ideal, that's what I have issue with
Yeah they definately arent and im so suprised i fell into that boomer trope myself even with my partner and i mocking it for years and then quietly slipping into it.
I mean, we've been parents for barely a month and I'm already understanding the bone-weary tiredness that eats away at a healthy sex life. But that's not really about the fidelity part of marriage, which is what really transforms a legally-binding roommate into a marital partner.
Like, why are my wife and I not grabbing tail on the side if all we care about is the economics of marriage? Some couples certainly do. But the real emotional injury about infidelity isn't legalistic.
All sex is demeaning. True human liberation can only be found in strict adherence to our volcel pledges.
If blowjobs are demeaning then all forms of sex are demeaning, I'm sorry. This is the dumbest shit I have ever seen
I'm almost curious about what this person's opinions are on "acceptable sexual positions", but not really.
Christ, if BJs are straight up off the table, what do they even think of kissing?
the person who wrote this has clearly never received oral sex and that, tbf, is her partner's fault for not reciprocating.
straight men are often very resistant to cunnilingus
I think it is fair to say that men, on the whole, resist gifting cunnilingus.
Men should start grifting cunnilingus. Maybe that would be an incentive. A free market approach
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5 TRAINING ROUTINES FOR STRONGER TONGUE MUSCLES
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TOP 7 DIETARY SUPLEMENTS TO ENHANCE YOUR APNEA PERFORMANCE.
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ENLARGE YOUR TONGUE
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GORILLA JAWS
brb convincing joe rogan to inject hgh directly into his tongue
"Dude, so gorillas, gorillas are these massive beasts everyone knows. Alpha males silver backs protecting their harems and fighting each other. But hear this, the professors went there to Africa and noticed one thing: Gorillas have small penises, that's true, 5 cm at best. Imagine this beast of 150 kg of pure muscles. They are the peak of manliness but they have small penises. People get freaked out when knowing about this, but they miss the important thing: they have insane mouth strenght, their lips, their jaws, their tongues. That's where the testosterone is going. You know it, high T, strong jaws. They use their muscles to fight other alpha males, but they aren't using their penises to please their harems. Get it? That's raw alpha maleness used correctly.
Listen, listen, high T, strong jaws. What for? Crack open coconuts? Of course not, we evolved past that. Gorillas too, gorillas don't live where the coconuts are. Human was created either in Kenya or in the middle east, but there are no coconuts there. So what else can it be? It is that. Listen,
You know when you are doing it correctly, they are gonna try squeaze your head. Oh yes, they will. They unconsciously try to immobilize you and suffocate you. It's an ancient reflex. But that's the test, it's their instinct to test you, to test your lung capacity, your neck strenght and jaw strenght, they test you with their hips strenght, it's their reproductive genes versus your reproductive genes. And man, you gotta fight it, you gotta pass the test, pass the test by keep going at it. "
Thanks, I have never listened that dipshit, I just imagined a generic roider brain
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Wait for real? Are straight guys who like giving cunnilingus more attractive bc of this?
It's more like cunnilingus is a default amenity and any guys who don't have that feature just get immediately returned to the factory as defective.
I just don’t get why women don’t withhold oral or sex in general if this is the case. Women generally have the upper hand in the sexual marketplace(tm). Well I get why in some cases, but that’s very bad :/
This only reaffirms my view that there are a bunch of people who are married for no good reason. Particularly WASPs
that's all people who are married
unless you need it for financial or legal shit i guess???
It's a fun and meaningful thing to do with another person you care deeply about. The long term benefits are totally all about property though. Property rights, taxes, owning property in common is made easier, etc. People just tend to treat you with more respect when they find out you are married.
that’s all people who are married
I did it for the big party and also to signal a real commitment of lasting partnership with my spouse.
I regret to inform you that the straights are, in fact, at it again.
Sex dynamics
A lot of the problems here end up being a mismatch of needs. Human sexuality is a complex mishmash of attitudes and reactions towards sex acts ranging from repulsion to indifference to attraction. And all of those can vary over time, vary depending on the participants, and vary depending on whether the person is giving or receiving an act.
If my partner was wanting more oral, but was otherwise sexually fulfilled, and failed to communicate this desire in any way for long enough that it was causing resentment… well it just seems likely that there are bigger problems to deal with first.
Horny stuff
Personally giving oral is hot af to me but I guess I’m just ✨b u i l t d i f f e r e n t ✨
Edit: oh, and monogamous marriage under modern capitalism is a tool for keeping families atomized in the face of non-collective child rearing. I don’t think we talk enough about how much a lot of marriages are still financial arrangements first and foremost. We cohabitate. We pay taxes. We pool money for the kids. But only with each other. And only for our kids. Our property. It makes things less complicated materially to repress our needs in that way.
Why wouldn't you want to give oral in a demeaning way? :thonk:
People are weird lmao
Now I'm confused, are they saying it's demeaning for the giver or the receiver?
If done playfully, either way can be fun.
I like giving blowjobs in a manner which demeans me. That's all.
excuse my heterophobia.
i'll dive face first into any of these crotches, idk if it's demeaning.
Got married at 32 this puts me at 77. Concerned about my prospects. I only touch the finest boobs
