If you have a fucking shower and you don’t use it you’re just lazy and stinky.
Or seriously disabled. Before I became effectively bed-bound because my spine is literally satan, I showered religiously. Now, managing to take a shower is committing to fifteen minutes of agony. I do it when I can, but there absolutely is such a thing as being too disabled to shower regularly. Some of those disabilities can be accommodated for. Others legitimately can't (If someone wants to invent and install a shower-bed for me, I won't complain, tho). Most of them also generally preclude spending much time in public, though, which I suppose is a counterpoint.
Yeah my spine is also satan, and unfortunately that does lead to bad hygiene sometimes on days that I don't need to leave the house.
But I make sure to shower if someone is coming over or if I'm going out in public, if I'm not well enough to shower I'm definitely not well enough to go out in public or hang out with friends.
Or seriously disabled. Before I became effectively bed-bound because my spine is literally satan, I showered religiously. Now, managing to take a shower is committing to fifteen minutes of agony. I do it when I can, but there absolutely is such a thing as being too disabled to shower regularly. Some of those disabilities can be accommodated for. Others legitimately can't (If someone wants to invent and install a shower-bed for me, I won't complain, tho). Most of them also generally preclude spending much time in public, though, which I suppose is a counterpoint.
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Yeah my spine is also satan, and unfortunately that does lead to bad hygiene sometimes on days that I don't need to leave the house.
But I make sure to shower if someone is coming over or if I'm going out in public, if I'm not well enough to shower I'm definitely not well enough to go out in public or hang out with friends.
Weird, I thought I replied to this already, I upvoted it.
Completely agree, you aren't the problem. Those that can but do not are.