My take: Most dudes don’t want to make people uncomfortable, but they’re socialized into thinking sexually harassing people, especially women, is a compliment. It’s fucked up, unacceptable, and dudes are responsible for working through that internalized patriarchy.
Irony joke lets the normal dudes have a self-crit moment and drop the shit. Sex pest losers keep going. Then you ban the creeps.
It's also flexible enough that you can make jokes about kinks and bottoming, but someone will come in with :volcel-judge: or :spray-bottle: before it goes for more than a comment or two.
My take: Most dudes don’t want to make people uncomfortable, but they’re socialized into thinking sexually harassing people, especially women, is a compliment. It’s fucked up, unacceptable, and dudes are responsible for working through that internalized patriarchy.
Irony joke lets the normal dudes have a self-crit moment and drop the shit. Sex pest losers keep going. Then you ban the creeps.
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It's also flexible enough that you can make jokes about kinks and bottoming, but someone will come in with :volcel-judge: or :spray-bottle: before it goes for more than a comment or two.