Am 200lb male, worn ex partners sun dresses plenty, want to get my own black one with pockets to go with my battle vest. No idea what size to try and look for. Having a pocket or two thats actually functional would be nice as well!

  • kristina [she/her]
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    3 years ago

    though i do dislike it when people say my bras are 'vanity sized' like im trying to act like my boobs are bigger than they are. no, bitch, i just have an extremely tiny rib cage and surprisingly large boobs for my frame. it fits perfect. if i choose a higher band and thus lower cup size its all floppy.

      • kristina [she/her]
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        3 years ago

        believe me its almost impossible to find my correct size. almost no one carries 26/28 band size bras (yes I really am that fucking tiny) so I usually just end up wearing sports bras most the time. and i usually need DD or F cups. which again, almost impossible to find on size 26/28 bands lmfao

        tl;dr im a barbie girl

        • Good_Username [they/them,e/em/eir]
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          3 years ago

          Bras (and bra sizes) are the worst! Back when I still had tits I wore a totally reasonable band size (32), but I needed FF or G cups. And those just purely don't exist in stores. The number of, like, 36DDs I've worn in my life that fit like absolute shit is too damn high.

    • Ideology [she/her]
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      3 years ago

      Getting mad about someone else's bra size sounds like patriarchy shit.

      • kristina [she/her]
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        3 years ago

        really is. even had a guy on a dating app say shit like that and im like 'youre a dude shut up' and left the chat