theytakemeawayfrom [he/him] to askchapo • edit-23 years agowhy is meeting people in real life so difficult?message-squaremessage-square83 fedilinkarrow-up189file-text
arrow-up189message-squarewhy is meeting people in real life so difficult?theytakemeawayfrom [he/him] to askchapo • edit-23 years agomessage-square83 Commentsfedilinkfile-text
it's relatively easy for me to meet people online, but there's only so much i can get out of virtual friendships anymore.
minus-squareusernamesaredifficul [he/him]hexbear1·3 years agoif you don't socialise with and form meaningful relationships with people then you will be lonely. it's difficult and it is a risk to put yourself out there but it also gets easier and not doing it isn't a long term plan link
minus-squareSadStruggle92 [none/use name]hexbear2·3 years ago if you don’t socialise with and form meaningful relationships with people then you will be lonely. I suppose my point is that I honestly believe that I simply can't, and never will be able to. link
minus-squareusernamesaredifficul [he/him]hexbear2·3 years agoyou might be putting to much pressure on yourself. socialising is a skill and it improves with practice. putting yourself out there continually makes people less uncomfortable putting themselves out there link
if you don't socialise with and form meaningful relationships with people then you will be lonely.
it's difficult and it is a risk to put yourself out there but it also gets easier and not doing it isn't a long term plan
I suppose my point is that I honestly believe that I simply can't, and never will be able to.
you might be putting to much pressure on yourself. socialising is a skill and it improves with practice.
putting yourself out there continually makes people less uncomfortable putting themselves out there