I'm not being disingenuous, I genuinely think that what I believe she should do doesn't matter. Because, this is not Reddit and you are not OP. I don't see it as pedantic.
I can only comment on the actions of a misogynist man who witnessed a traumatic event for his girlfriend and made it about his dick.
how you believe it to be helpful to the conversation and what you hope to achieve by doing so.
What conversation? You want to answer OP's post ("I want to keep my relationship") and I don't. I want to be more mindful of the way misogyny hurts women. Your original comment sounds dismissive of the way this is misogyny and sexual violence:
Sometimes you say shitty things that you really regret later, sometimes you’re not there for people you really love when they need you.
Forgive me for thinking it's an inappropriate response. So:
He got sent revenge porn and wasn’t able to focus on how traumatic that is for her. (…) I shouldn’t be surprised at rape culture and people (linked Reddit comment) ignoring women’s trauma for men’s comfort, but oh well.
Edit: why the fuck is this thread still going on. It has no substance.
"I genuinely think that what I believe she should do doesn’t matter. Because, this is not Reddit and you are not OP."
So if you're only judging her in your mind, and disagree with saying these things to her directly on reddit, then I don't even know why this entire page exists.
" why the fuck is this thread still going on. It has no substance."
I'm judging her bf and the redditor who commented. I don't judge victims and survivors.
and disagree with saying these things to her directly on reddit
I think getting her in contact with rpe and revenge porn survivors would be more helpful than excusing her bf. I would have commented that.
then I don’t even know why this entire page exists.
Well you see. A few months ago, a subreddit for a popular left-wing podcast was banned from reddit. This subreddit was called ChapoTrapHouse after the pod and was a place were leftists would post memes. The ban was meant to-
I'm not being disingenuous, I genuinely think that what I believe she should do doesn't matter. Because, this is not Reddit and you are not OP. I don't see it as pedantic.
I can only comment on the actions of a misogynist man who witnessed a traumatic event for his girlfriend and made it about his dick.
What conversation? You want to answer OP's post ("I want to keep my relationship") and I don't. I want to be more mindful of the way misogyny hurts women. Your original comment sounds dismissive of the way this is misogyny and sexual violence:
Forgive me for thinking it's an inappropriate response. So:
Edit: why the fuck is this thread still going on. It has no substance.
So if you're only judging her in your mind, and disagree with saying these things to her directly on reddit, then I don't even know why this entire page exists.
Fair.
I'm judging her bf and the redditor who commented. I don't judge victims and survivors.
I think getting her in contact with rpe and revenge porn survivors would be more helpful than excusing her bf. I would have commented that.
Well you see. A few months ago, a subreddit for a popular left-wing podcast was banned from reddit. This subreddit was called ChapoTrapHouse after the pod and was a place were leftists would post memes. The ban was meant to-
I mean this particular page rather than the whole website....
That's where I was getting at, smh.