I would say Crusader Kings 3, in which you play as the head of a royal dynasty, aiming to lead it to fame, power, and wealth. It plays differently from other grand strategy (map) games in the sense that it incorporates many RPG features. You control only a single character, and upon your character's death, you continue the game as your heir. The game is lost only if your bloodline ends. Strategies such as arranging strategic "political" marriages, eliminating rivals through assassination, and managing unruly vassals are integral parts of the gameplay. In the latest update, they introduced plagues that can ravage your lands and your character. There is also war and conquest (painting the map in your color). You can play a plethora of characters, from small nobles with barely any holdings to the Emperor of the Byzantine Empire. Also, if you don't want to bother with Europe, the map extends into India and Western Africa.

A hexbear favourite in the gerne is probably Victoria 3 It's set in the 19th and early 20th centuries, focusing on the management and development of a nation. You control a country, managing aspects like politics, economics, military, and diplomacy. The game emphasizes internal politics, social reforms, industrialization, and colonial expansion. You can be a socialist nation in this game. I do consider it more on the spreadsheet side of the gerne though.

My personal fav is probably still Stellaris which is a Sci-fi grandstrategy game. If you want any further information feel free to ask. Strategy games of all kinds are my fav. gerne.