I remember feeling so bad that I was browsing that subreddit because it would be creepy as fuck for a cishet dude to encroach on a space only for lesbians. Turns out I am a lesbian so all is well.
Yep, same thought process. Felt very guilty about lurking but also very confused that I was insanely jealous of all these lesbians just living their lives as lesbians. Now it's just one of those 10,000 little things that make a lot more sense.
Hate to say it but lurking in /r/actuallesbians helped me realize I was trans. :shrug-outta-hecks:
I remember feeling so bad that I was browsing that subreddit because it would be creepy as fuck for a cishet dude to encroach on a space only for lesbians. Turns out I am a lesbian so all is well.
Yep, same thought process. Felt very guilty about lurking but also very confused that I was insanely jealous of all these lesbians just living their lives as lesbians. Now it's just one of those 10,000 little things that make a lot more sense.
:trans-uno: