I understand that, I read all your other comments. I just can't put any of the out of context stuff into a context that makes sense which is hard when you feel like it's not something a person would do.
Part of me wonders if they're ok or if something else is going on in their life for it to happen. Meltdowns don't happen without emotional stress existing and given that 2 years on the site has happened with only a few issues (relative to overall participation) with none of it being a full blown meltdown I can't help but think there are factors here that have contributed to it? A lot of the responses you've referenced only make sense to me from such an old user in the context of a person who is deliberately getting themselves nuked from the site because they're having an event so to speak.
Mmm I get that but something still isn't adding up for me though. It's a step beyond and I can't help wondering if they're ok or if something pretty bad is going on for them to drive the final outburst. The last stuff seems like acting out to me, and people only act out in my experience when something else is going on.
None of this changes what has happened, I'm just concerned and hope they're ok.
Hmm maybe a factor, maybe some other issues extending from that exacerbating it? I don't know. Something's off though. If you're reading this Buttkin please know that people still care even if we obviously condemn that outburst.
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I understand that, I read all your other comments. I just can't put any of the out of context stuff into a context that makes sense which is hard when you feel like it's not something a person would do.
Part of me wonders if they're ok or if something else is going on in their life for it to happen. Meltdowns don't happen without emotional stress existing and given that 2 years on the site has happened with only a few issues (relative to overall participation) with none of it being a full blown meltdown I can't help but think there are factors here that have contributed to it? A lot of the responses you've referenced only make sense to me from such an old user in the context of a person who is deliberately getting themselves nuked from the site because they're having an event so to speak.
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Mmm I get that but something still isn't adding up for me though. It's a step beyond and I can't help wondering if they're ok or if something pretty bad is going on for them to drive the final outburst. The last stuff seems like acting out to me, and people only act out in my experience when something else is going on.
None of this changes what has happened, I'm just concerned and hope they're ok.
I think he'd recently become unemployed, not sure if that was a cause or part of whatever's going on with him.
And same, big :fidel-wut: about what happened but it's pretty concerning and I hope he's ok
Hmm maybe a factor, maybe some other issues extending from that exacerbating it? I don't know. Something's off though. If you're reading this Buttkin please know that people still care even if we obviously condemn that outburst.
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