Well we aren't therapists or a friend circle with incels so yes that's consistent and good. Using left spaces as therapy for virulent toxic masculinity is a good way to completely exhaust everyone and provide no recovery or commiseration or sometimes even organizing space.

Individuals could go try and engage him on Reddit if they wanted to, i.e. in another space. Folks here show plenty of empathy as well as exhaust and disgust with a person that explicitly hates them. I think there are better uses of time for deconstructing misogyny and that online spaces are inherently limited in the extent to which anyone can take an empathetic path, beginning with the low resolution of communication. It's easy to stoke conflict and hate against the other. It's much harder to form a successful approach to internal regulation that isn't basically the same thing but turned inwards. e.g., our bullying of "left" transphobes, which I fully agree with.