Whether she's too picky depends on what "red flag" means imo, like some people use it to mean caution and some people use it to mean instant non starter.
Of course if it's the latter that's still totally within her rights, just outside the norm.
i think "too picky" shouldn't be taken as a moral criticism, honestly. They're definitely within their rights to be as picky as they want. The only issue is that they might make themselves miserable in the process.
Whether she's too picky depends on what "red flag" means imo, like some people use it to mean caution and some people use it to mean instant non starter.
Of course if it's the latter that's still totally within her rights, just outside the norm.
i think "too picky" shouldn't be taken as a moral criticism, honestly. They're definitely within their rights to be as picky as they want. The only issue is that they might make themselves miserable in the process.