Also ignoring the metric tonnes of amateur porn posted where one participant is too intoxicated to consent, a minor (who is far enough into puberty that there's "plausible deniability"), not aware that they are being filmed, some poor callgirl under the authority of a pimp, and a number of other scenarios.
If you and your gf want to be exhibitionists for money and/or fun, good for you, but let's not pretend that amateur porn is categorically not rape.*
*which is not the same as "let's not pretend it's not categorically rape," because examples like yours do disprove that.
Oh I absolutely recognize that lots of "amateur" porn is rape. In fact a lot of cases of trafficked people fall under "amateur" porn. Sorry I wasn't clear there, I was addressing the point he made that 1. Porn is filmed rape, and 2. A couple making money off of porn doesn't make it rape
Also ignoring the metric tonnes of amateur porn posted where one participant is too intoxicated to consent, a minor (who is far enough into puberty that there's "plausible deniability"), not aware that they are being filmed, some poor callgirl under the authority of a pimp, and a number of other scenarios.
If you and your gf want to be exhibitionists for money and/or fun, good for you, but let's not pretend that amateur porn is categorically not rape.*
*which is not the same as "let's not pretend it's not categorically rape," because examples like yours do disprove that.
Oh I absolutely recognize that lots of "amateur" porn is rape. In fact a lot of cases of trafficked people fall under "amateur" porn. Sorry I wasn't clear there, I was addressing the point he made that 1. Porn is filmed rape, and 2. A couple making money off of porn doesn't make it rape