Why? I'm curious in particular about your choice of the word creepy. I can understand why it might be a bad idea, power imbalance in the relationship, the much older half has social power and experience i just lack. It might also be a bad idea long term because the older member will reach old age long before I will, or there might be a very narrow/non-existent window to have kids if I want that with them. But you chose the word creepy, and I'm curious about that.
Look man I'm not explaining to you why old men fucking young girls is creepy. If you can't see it then you're a crypto-libertarian. Your "just asking questions bro" attitude is repugnant.
I'm asking what's creepy about the younger party being attracted to the older, not the other way around. And I think my specific questions made that clear. I also find it telling you default to old man and young woman when the context of our discussion was young men, as well as women and I think some other gender expressions, being into a middle aged woman. If you don't want to talk about that topic that's fine, you can just find it icky and that's the end of the discussion. But "you're advocating pedophilia if you find a 50 year old hot when you're under 40" is not a good argument.
We all know what you're getting at. "If it's OK for an older woman to like a younger man it's totally OK for me to like this 15 year old girl! You know she's actually a spirit who's hundreds of years old, she just looks like this because she thinks it's cute!"
I'm asking one question that could not be more opposite to the one you are suggesting. Are you saying everyone in this thread who finds her hot and isn't born within 10 years of her or whatever is part of a psyop to make pedophilia normalized?
Listen, if you are an adult aged x who is attracted to an older adult aged y, then according to this website based on social norms from Victorian England:
x * 2 + 7 < y ? pedo : not pedo
Its an immutable law of nature, already established by the above website, that if you are attracted to someone much older then you are actually attracted to people much younger, QED
They still apply to YOU, and it is still creepy to be in your 20s and date a woman old enough to have kids in college.
Why? I'm curious in particular about your choice of the word creepy. I can understand why it might be a bad idea, power imbalance in the relationship, the much older half has social power and experience i just lack. It might also be a bad idea long term because the older member will reach old age long before I will, or there might be a very narrow/non-existent window to have kids if I want that with them. But you chose the word creepy, and I'm curious about that.
Look man I'm not explaining to you why old men fucking young girls is creepy. If you can't see it then you're a crypto-libertarian. Your "just asking questions bro" attitude is repugnant.
I'm asking what's creepy about the younger party being attracted to the older, not the other way around. And I think my specific questions made that clear. I also find it telling you default to old man and young woman when the context of our discussion was young men, as well as women and I think some other gender expressions, being into a middle aged woman. If you don't want to talk about that topic that's fine, you can just find it icky and that's the end of the discussion. But "you're advocating pedophilia if you find a 50 year old hot when you're under 40" is not a good argument.
We all know what you're getting at. "If it's OK for an older woman to like a younger man it's totally OK for me to like this 15 year old girl! You know she's actually a spirit who's hundreds of years old, she just looks like this because she thinks it's cute!"
"Wanting to have sex with Kari from Mythbusters makes you a pedophile" :galaxy-brain:
Again, I was asking why you thought a young man finding an older woman hot would be creepy, and you keep reversing it.
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I'm asking one question that could not be more opposite to the one you are suggesting. Are you saying everyone in this thread who finds her hot and isn't born within 10 years of her or whatever is part of a psyop to make pedophilia normalized?
Listen, if you are an adult aged x who is attracted to an older adult aged y, then according to this website based on social norms from Victorian England: x * 2 + 7 < y ? pedo : not pedo
Its an immutable law of nature, already established by the above website, that if you are attracted to someone much older then you are actually attracted to people much younger, QED
:jesse-wtf: