You're not wrong. Webtoons/comics seem to be where most of the new content is being made and I do browse those spaces.

Tbh, I think part of the problem is that the sheer weight of shonen advertising causes women gravitate towards shonen works (like MHA), until there's a general perception of anime in general being bad at fem characters, when it's mostly just a mainstream male writer thing. I also think the overwhelming number of poorly written fem characters isn't doing us any favors when it comes to inflating the egos of incels.