There is acceptance, and then there is complacency. We should definitely strive to make everyone happy with themselves as they are, but we must be able to own up to our own areas of lacking, to both ourselves and to those around us/our comrades. We should accept ourselves regardless of these shortcomings, as we are humans in incredibly difficult circumstances. Though painful, through voicing aloud our shames and regrets (think Maoist Self Criticism), we disarm them in our psyche, and allow us to move forward from them. We all must seek to better ourselves through recognizing and overcoming our shortcomings. We will all need to be our best selves through and following a revolution.