Yesterday I told one of my older friends who has always known me as a straight male (while I don't really have labels I'm comfortable with yet, but definitely questioning both) that I currently have a crush on a man, and he immediately accepted it as new reality, was very supportive and tried to help me with a helpful label (he suggested pan). Was a bit nervous but was a good conversation and speaking it out loud also helped me to accept it more as reality. My journey is very slow but I'm making steps!