Also I wanna note the mods act like criticism of mod action matters, like, what, they're gonna get :vote: d out or something? I really don't understand how even the mildest criticism of anything sends them :mao-aggro-shining: like lmao literally causing more problems that way.

OH NO THE USERS ARE MAD THEY'RE GOING TO USE THE USER UNION TO OUST US :Bwaaa:

Also before my ban I wanna note: there's now no !userunion@hexbear.net, which means all current posters are posting scabs

edit: I'm loggin' out, good night to all y'all :rat-salute-2:

  • Yurt_Owl
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    2 years ago

    I mean it sounds really shitty but at the end of the day only you can control how much you let this site get to you. Take a break, have a cup of tea and enjoy life outside of this website. I mean this respectfully its not worth expending the energy. Are the minutes in your life really worth wasting it on this? You can't change it, the mods will do what they do no amount of posting will shift that.

    I'm saying this as someone who got way to emotionally involved in this site and took a lot of what was said here personally. It got easier when I just stopped giving a shit.

    • AllTheseWreckers [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      You're probably right, it's just hard for me to not obsess over things in general, and especially so when I feel like I have been treated wrongly

      • Zodiark
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        4 months ago

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    • AssadCurse [none/use name]
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      2 years ago

      I think the point is OP would rather the abusive users be the ones having to take tea breaks instead of their victims. Over time it creates a toxic and rancid posting culture

    • eduardog3000 [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      at the end of the day only you can control how much you let ... get to you

      Literally just victim blaming, no matter what goes in the ...

      It's like word for word what uncaring adults say to autistic kids getting bullied. I know because I've heard those words before.