• AcidSmiley [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      this is what i look out for in a man, that his tactical grocery storage equipment informs me he is not gay and i can safely date him in hopes of having a sex with his very heterosexual penis. would be so frustrating to go out on a date only to learn that he is a gay who does the, you know, the ... environmental ... stuff. that would be bad. i would lose so much time i could put to better use for carrying white babies.

      pls take note if you are a man of the straight persuasion: this is what us girls want from dudes. not some feminine shit where you have ... furniture in your appartment or w/e.

      • infuziSporg [e/em/eir]
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        2 years ago

        "Not looking gay" is less of a demonstration to women, and more of a virtue (virility?) signal to other men. It is masculine brainworms, definitely.

          • infuziSporg [e/em/eir]
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            2 years ago

            Inter-masculine performative competition is about establishing maleness and domination as the basis for a person's valuation.

            Paradoxically, a man can talk about being with women, but actually spending time with women makes him look less macho.

            But to the people who replicate the dynamic, they do not recognize any contradiction.