• Blep [he/him]
    hexagon
    ·
    2 years ago

    So the going method is to pretend until you fuck up, then adjust to not fuck up in that way?

    • MitchFucko [any]
      ·
      2 years ago

      Kind of like learning to ride a bike, except the bike is another person learning to ride a bike. It's complicated and easier for some people than others, but still a learning process that most people can get better at with time and practice.

      Sometimes someone reacts negatively because they see your behavior as "non-normative", sometimes they react negatively because they're having a bad day, sometimes they react negatively because they don't know how to "act normal" either.